I have read all your posts, trying to make you realize that just because you had the convo does not mean you will have the will power to stop it when he comes cake eating again, and he will.
Get ready, it is going to be a bumpy ride.
Be sure and have another one of those crazy weekends next opportunity, I think that really gets to him.
Sorry to be the only nasty old guy that is always trying to bring you down, but I want what you want, and I know that you can get there quicker but you are going the long way, and sometimes we get lost going the long way.