I hear ya on missing out on stuff. My xh was a HUGE romantic while we were dating. We dated 4 years before we got married and he never really slacked off on being affectionate and romantic. The pastor said "I now pronounce you man and wife" and from that moment on, other that sex, he stopped showing any affection ever. No hugs (unless I initiated them), no hand holding (unless I took his hand and even then he would pull his away after a couple of minutes), no kissing (again, unless I initiated it and then it was always a game of dodge 'em with him). I'm an extremely affectionate woman so that was my undoing. I found it very hard to be sexually open when my emotional needs weren't met. Very strange to be married to someone like that. I don't think I've ever known a woman who was like that with the man in her life......weird.
Glad you're comfortable with jumping ship if need be.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
