When it's right, things will be right. No worries.

I understand the being lonely. You just need to make sure that you are dating for the right reason, of course. Not to fill your lonely life, but the enhance your already fabulous life. I say this out of nothing but concern, of course.

My D was final last November. My xh left for ow 11 months before that. He had been having the A with her for 8 months before that. It's been a long time, but it's also given me a lot of time to grown and rediscover the woman I had lost inside of my M. That's been wonderful!

So, I guess what I'm trying to say is, just make sure that you aren't searching for someone to fulfill you, complete you, or save you from yourself. Because if you're not happy all alone, it's tough to be happy inside a R that is going to take all of your energy. smile I'm ALL for enhancement though!!!!!!

Yep......IMO......cut bait on that one! :0


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!