Blindsided this number is in reference to the actual amount of cash he would have to put into her greedy little hands. She is under the impression that she should get at least $800 a month plus what he is doing now. He is paying ALL of the daycare, providing all of the food and diapers for the baby right now. The biggest problem with him just handing her the $$ is that she will spend it gambling and then the baby won't have what she needs.
Its only a victory in that she thought this would net her a bonus check every month and its not really working out the way she planned.
I am totally in favor of him doing more than what the disso master says because its the right thing to do, but handing her money to blow on herself is just not a good idea, because then the child suffers and that sucks.
In your case, when they get married you should look into having a CS lien put on their home for the back that he owes. CSS will help you with this.
Everything I did to prevent this from happening to me is what you should do for you and K. I filed my papers to protect my kids and me, but I don't want his D to go without because I think her mother is a money-grubbing whore. She has proven that by suggesting that he move home just for the sole purpose of paying her more. She doesn't seem to get that the money is for the baby and her care, not for her own personal use.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
