Not to play devil's advocate, but the disomaster calculates his CS responsibility. My H has to pay that PLUS half the daycare PLUS half the medical bills. The total amounts to about $1000/month. Just keep that in mind. OW is scrambling to keep a grip on your H...hence the bombardment of phone/texting. Telling him to go home to you is a total game...she doesn't want that. She wants to win. It's like me telling my H that I don't love him anymore. I wanted to hurt him by showing him I didn't care about him...big fat f'ing lie and he knows it.
I hope it goes in your favor. OW doesn't deserve sh!t. Good that your H provides for the child. Mine NEVER did. He thinks having her one day a week...he's taking care of her and providing as much as I am...delussional. But, little does he know, I filed a case with DCSS. Now they will garnish whatever they can get their hands on, plus back pay, plus 10% interest....and when "they" get married and he gets fired for the 25th time...she'll be paying my CS. That's when I am going to send a thank you card to her and maybe I'll put in the "how do you like me now" or maybe "you wanted to buy my H, this is how much he costs".
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him