what do i want? i want him to come home, end his affair, work things out here, meaning counseling and whatever else it takes.

but what i want and what will happen may not be the same.

im sure if i waited long enough, didnt proceed legally, he will return. but the real question is, would he stay, would it work out?

right now we are in a very tough position financially, more him than me due to his personal credit troubles that have arose from the affair and carring on the double life.

i am taking it day by day.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09