what do i want? i want him to come home, end his affair, work things out here, meaning counseling and whatever else it takes.
but what i want and what will happen may not be the same.
im sure if i waited long enough, didnt proceed legally, he will return. but the real question is, would he stay, would it work out?
right now we are in a very tough position financially, more him than me due to his personal credit troubles that have arose from the affair and carring on the double life.
i am taking it day by day.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09