Sorry, misunderstood. I thought had meant that she had given him another chance as in re-married and now separated again. Got it. That's SUPER messy. If they are D'd then why is she so concerned about him seeing texts from you? And when the kids aren't even there, and they are alone in the house.....eeeeekkkkk. That doesn't seem like a healthy situation to be stuck in the middle of, especially when you are trying to recover from a nasty D yourself.
Time alone is a GOOD thing! Very healing.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
