Hey mnt_dreams,

How's everything going for you? Thanks for the advice concerning my MIL. You're right, contacting her to see my SS would probably make her feel uncomfortable.

Any exciting outdoor plans for the summer? I want to learn to flyfish better, go rafting, and take some backpacking trips. Summer in this state is so short, so I better take advantage of it before it's gone!

One thing that perplexes me about being in limbo is not knowing how much time to give my H. I decided, for now anyway, to give him 6 months. (He signed a six month lease) After that, if he's still ambivalent and conflicted, I need to just file for D so I can move on with my life, (meaning I can begin to date others) Do you think this is a good idea? I don't want to be in limbo forever.

Me 40
WAH 43
T 4 years
M 10 months
stepson 9
H left 1 month ago
No D filed