I know what I said earlier, but I think you have one choice now...you've tried all the others. I would go dark on her. I would NOT pick her up at the airport. I would be moved out of the house by Wednesday when she gets back. She has to lose you now. You can't make her be a reasonable wife. You can't force her into giving up OM (in reality or just in her heart). But you can give yourself back your self-respect and maybe help her take the steps necessary for her to get you back. It's always been too easy for her. You have kept her around no matter how many times she contacts (and sleeps) with OM. You look like the cuckolded husband. She's the kind of woman that NEEDS to be kicked to the curb. Why do you think she's in England now? Because she was kicked to the curb. Get out GH31. And don't take her back so easily if she ever does get her head out. And quit believing anything she's said. Her actions have been enough to show you what you're dealing with.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
