One thing I would like to add is now that I know more of what is going on thanks to Flight, Stuck and all here. It also brings a reality that in order to break a routine of everyday life for the WAS in the determined way they are can also bring a sense of urgency to LBS’s like me! I also did this against the advice of others here. Now Flight has really helped by ending up on the other side of this at a cost to her life!
I personally would love to see someone like Flight and anyone that came to this point after the damage to really help her! I know it’s a dream right now and even if someone does it may not do any good…. With all this good information I have now and no way to express it to my WAS it is very frustrating to watch this continue…. Flight when you were in the fog nothing could be said right? But something could be done! IE being a real 2 x 4 or just stay out of the circle?
Again my sitch has other factors like the accident. I want to forgive my W and probably could…. If we were even talking at all I think we could…. She has gone much farther then a shuttering kiss unfortunately and I know she is missing me a little but will not act on it…. She said she wanted me to know what she wants without having to tell me long before this we reached this point! Well I did and do… Will she start missing that I am the one who knows her inside and out and miss it so much? It’s been over 7 months and the contact has shriveled to nothing…. I have backed off completely and now plan to move….
I guess I have not listened to everything and wish I had. I guess for me it’s what I can do now…
Me 40 waw 39 Never formally M Common law SD 16 SS 13 Together 9 yrs bomb 10/2/08 She started dating 11/08 Started P/A 01/09 Contiunes to call R over
