Oh, no, they are divorced, 8 years. She left and took the kids when it was all said and done. He begged and pleaded and said he'd change, blah, blah blah and she came back and gave him another chance. He didn't change and it's supposed to be a 'it is what it is' type situation.

I sent a e-mail, subject lined "Just a fitting horoscope" of mine of the day:

"Gemini (May 21-June 21): 6. If you're having trouble understanding an older person's whims, stop thinking logically. React emotionally. That's what the other person is doing. Don't expect this to make sense."

No reply as of yet.

The dynamics of situation between us are pretty unique and involves my younger 1/2 sister's as she was one of their mother's better friends. So when I told my told my sister that we were 'dating' on Saturday, she was happy for me, but at the same time voiced some concern over her and her XH, so I guess I now know what that meant as it was pretty vague.

What a shame.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11