Learning to Detach

[kjensen]

Update:
More ups and downs. H still says the problems that were in our relationship before he moved out are still here. We don't see MC until tomorrow. He says he thinks about OW everyday-mostly with anger and confusion about what happened but sometimes misses her. His therapist says he needs to have closure. This last week there have been more "bumps" than before and I suspect H may be in that last phase of MLC and not really out of the tunnel completely. Definitely issues with aging-had his birthday recently and got "down" about getting older...

So I'm not sure we're far out of the woods yet which is pretty scary as we're trying to sell our house and downsize as a family...