PDT and anyone else, where did i go wrong besides actually taking the time to answer? I can handle making myself happy and being in a good mood without her. i still have anxiety when i talk to her because i'm worried i'm not doing something right. my mind is in a haze when i'm talking to her. we only talked for 2 mins the 2nd time as i'm trying to limit all contact with her and when i do talk to her I want it on my terms..
me = happy. me talking to her = "nervous". how do i remedy this? back to the darkness
Where did you go wrong? You went wrong in leaping to it being your fault that she's upset. Did you do anything wrong by sounding happy and saying you were going out? No. So why is it your problem if she jumps to the wrong conclusions or gets upset that you are happy? Are you going to try to be miserable so she feels better? Hopefully not...so let her own her own emotions and you just own your own.
Try this: If she "seems" upset...ask yourself, "Is it my problem?" If not, then forget it.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
