Originally Posted By: mishka422

Do any of you find yourself watching the dynamics in couples very careful and biting your tongue to keep from blurting out advice to them? I swear, I have seen so many women belittling their H's, outright disprespecting them, talking down to their families, etc. and I can't believe I never noticed it before all of this. I wonder how many of these people will end up right where I'm at one of these days. Sad that we had to learn the lessons FAR too late, huh?


All the time. Matter of fact just yesterday I had to defend my cousin's BF (I know not H, but anyway) and then did an analysis that only 2 couples of the 10 or 11 that we were invovled in their weddings divorced, so that was a pretty good ratio.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11