Did you check the calendar??? I'm definitely thinking it is that time of the month!
Actually, this is a great list for you to get out of your mind and into print. It allows you to really look at and evaluate things and what YOU are going to do about it.
What can you do about feeling helpless, sorry, abandoned, confused, judgmental, embarrassed, demeaned, devalued, humiliated, and betrayed? This is a jumping off point for you to use to detach your emotional entanglement.
One of my favorite quotes is from Eleanor Roosevelt "No one can make you feel inferior without your permission." So, time to take back the permission you have given him to make you feel all of those negative emotions.
One more quote for you--"The smallest change in perspective can transform a life. What tiny attitude adjustment might turn your world around?" Oprah Winfrey
So, today, what attitude adjustment are YOU going to make to change the dynamic in your life? If PMS is an issue--I would suggest a couple pamprin and a ton of exercise--both work great for me!
I have also been reading, daily, Oh The Places You'll Go ever since Coach suggested it. I am working on getting out of my Waiting Place. Maybe it is time for you to take steps out of your Waiting Place. The steps do not have to dissolve your M, but they can make you a happier mom and woman. If your H thinks it makes you a great wife, too, then that is icing on the cake.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7