Quote:

"I feel_______________ when you do _______________."


I feel helpless when you brag to our kids/leave/are insensitive/buy them things to win them over

I feel sorry for all of us when you do and say things that your dad did and said

I feel abandoned when you leave at the end of a nice day

I feel confused when you get so close but just have to go

I feel judgmental and embarrassed when you brag and gloat to other people

I feel demeaned, devalued and humiliated when you talk about being with other women

I feel betrayed when you are glib about our marriage and current problems

Starting here...I would say NONE of this to him IRL right now.