why do you say you 'adhere'? Would you take him back?
I think these people are selfish and still want to know if we are still in love with them. THey keep dipping their little toe in the water---just to check.
Best to be unavailable and keep a poker face.
You are doing great sweets...don't worry about the meltdowns...It's asign that you still have a heart.
Hugs, Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
