I definitely needed it. I almost think my gf needed it more though. She never, ever, ever leaves her H and kids except to take care of her parent's home while they are away. She said it felt like a vacation and she didn't want to go home. All I could think while she was complaining about the kids and H pestering her all the time was "Yeah, careful what you complain about. Don't ever be complacent about your H and what he does for you. Don't ever turn down an opportunity to spend alone time with your H because you'll regret it someday. Look where I am." Heavens.
Do any of you find yourself watching the dynamics in couples very careful and biting your tongue to keep from blurting out advice to them? I swear, I have seen so many women belittling their H's, outright disprespecting them, talking down to their families, etc. and I can't believe I never noticed it before all of this. I wonder how many of these people will end up right where I'm at one of these days. Sad that we had to learn the lessons FAR too late, huh?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
