I think I'm trying to put the Do before the Be...I need to work more on myself. I am fiercely protective of my children. Hurting them is a quick way to get on my not so great side. But, he is their dad and I can't control him, nor can I dictate what is good or bad for them, it is just so hard to see them hurt and confused.
I want my decisions and actions to be clear and reasonable. Not controlling or loaded. It is a hard line when I'm the mama bear.
