I know you know this but she will never be anything to your son...he may tolerate her to have his Dad...
It is so hard to believe they could be so retarded ......I would venture to say she must have put a ton of pressure to be there
I know how u feel though...yesterday my son had his first game of summer ball....and as I drove to the game I wondered will this be the day she is there....so far never been at an event I have....she went to one early in the high school season that was for a special try out not related to the school in a far away town....some of the other parents were there but only a few....then i heard she showed up at my sons Dads house ready to go to another Saturday game a few months ago and my son told her o no u cant go, that would be disrespectful to my MOM.....and she didnt go...thank GOD.... Getting left for OW is one thing...having them involved in our kids life......oh that is just beyond words...
My son graduates next year from high school......I wonder by then if she will be making her appearance...as the pressure mounts....they did not get involved with our h ...to be hidden away ........I know they cant wait to make their appearances.....they are so foolish to think ....what they think people are thinking....
as far your situation.....wheres that itching powder...lol....ok a girl can dream....
these men are so lost.....at my sons game yesterday...when I see my x now...gosh he just looks so different like a stranger....and that is weird like your in the twlight zone...
keep moving forward...you have grown so much and he is stuck....sad as it is....
your son knows the deal......and isnt that the saddest of all....what we thought were no brainers about the type of Dads our H would be ...and then to deal with the examples they have set for our kids ....its the hardest part...
