Be firm and set a specific schedule as to when your H can visit. Don't wait around for him. do it for yourself and your son.
As for Stockholm Syndrome, in terms of your H it's totally different. SS is when you are the victim and you become sympathetic to the cause of your captors. What your H has is approval issues with his mom. Because his dad wasn't around, he's still trying to get approval from his mother. Even though it was sexually abusive in the past, he still seeks her love. He interprets it differently because of the abuse.
That's probably why he can't seem to "love" you because the only one he loves is his mother. Or he could probably find love with someone who abuses him.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
