You're doing a great job at staying detached. When you're around her, do you try looking your best, etc? Let her miss you for the "right" reasons. Not because she's looking at you to blame for her insecurities.
Thanks for your comments on my post. I've got some heavy hitters going through my sitch and am glad for everyone of theirs and your postings.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.