Your sitch is totally different. Once an ultimatum was issued, FF felt bad and asked for forgiveness. Your W, however, not only had an A, but kicked you out of the house, tells you she's going out with other men and keeps talking down to you.
It comes down to one thing. Respect.
Your W doesn't respect you. I have to give 25mlc credit because she's stayed with you alot longer than most. I admit I still read your posts, but have no replies because they are all the same.
25's right. There is no quick and easy answer. Especially in your sitch. Go to your C tomorrow and learn. Geez I think everyone's already told you this. In your post, you even wrote about how you would never talk about your kids being a hassle (in not so many words) like your W. But wasn't it you who was complaining about your oldest D wanting something you couldn't afford and you saying that she was a lost cause from being influenced by your W and MIL? You did the same thing.
Seriously read everything people post to you and process. I couldn't believe you were questioning why playing poker wasn't GAL after I don't know how many people told you why.
Stick to your thread and work it out.
Sorry for the hijack too FF.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
