Kev,

your sitch is way way different and you are again grasping for straws. You have a thread of your own with 100 people who know your sitch posting to you but you don't like what you see there, so you come to other places where you can hear different answers...and take some more polls until someone tells you the magic secret to get your w back. There is NO MAGIC SECRET... THis all takes TIME and how often can we ALL tell you that? You have been at it for less than 6 months!! (KEVIN4 re-read that. 6 MONTHS and btw, again, can you look at some other posters HERE and see THEIR time lines, mine included?)
Your impatience is to the point of being just ridiculous. You have yet to go 24 hours without mentioning your w...

Makes it really really hard to post to you the way we do Kev4. We take SO MUCH TIME for you, and get ignored and then begged to post some more to you....I have literally spent about 2 full work weeks in total, OR MORE, posting to you...just to get you to see a c... These people are not in your sitch at all. Really. The feelings may be the same but the ACTIONS are not. this has to be the last 2 x 4 Kev...I'm frustrated as heck. (Folks --check his thread if you think I'm being too harsh on him. I am not. OMG)

...Kev4, you know, if you actually stuck to ONE healthy action plan, for more than a day or two, who knows what would happen? But you won't. So i guess we'll never know.

(sorry for the hijack FF et al)

j-


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change