GH31 - Dilemma with my pregnant wife

[saffie]

I am afraid GH I agree with Sara. Don't pick her up from the airport.

If you haven't done so already, perhaps it is time to share some of her correspondence with OM with her family.

The longer this pregnancy continues, the harder it will get to have a termination. At 16 weeks gestation she would have to go through a proper labour to terminate - that would be awful. I don't think she would do that so you need to plan for what you are going to do when this baby arrives. My guess is she sees the baby as an insurance plan ....as a way of keeping you hanging on and with her in some supporting capacity.

In the past, although she has railed against it, it has always been when you have put your foot down that she has 'come to heel'. So therefore, I would decide what you want and then act on it and don't be swayed by her. She will end up falling into line with your plans.

GH, being a parent and keeping a M going is hard enough when both parties want that. Children don't cement a M they pull the parents in different directions in most cases. IMO one should never have a child with someone when going into the situation you are uncertain.....it will only make things more complicated and difficult.

I also think that email she sent to work was just awful. What kind of light does that show you in? This woman really has no consideration for others.

Think hard about this GH- do you really want to be dealing with this for years to come?