I don't think I have much say if he wants to hang out with the kids somewhere. They wont sleep there.
Californication- we used to watch that together...Ummm...that dude is NEVER gonna change. That is just so perfect.
I do lots of little maneuvers, trust me.
Yes, R talks are initiated by him but usually he says something that under most circumstances I can just let slide and I just cave at that moment. I'm on the spot or something. It has been a few days.
I agree with you about the MC in your sitch. Probably not right now. As long as you can keep DBing and not expect "answers," YKWIM? I think if you are struggling too much, MC can sometimes help. But overall, I agree with you.
I can forgive him for leaving me to pursue his dreams. It is hard to forgive him hurting our kids and impacting their lives and providing such cr*ppy modeling. They are boys, they are watching him. Plus, it is easier to forgive something that is past tense. I have to try to forgive all of the cr*p that is yet to come and my kids' lives being so dramatically impacted.
I agree with you on the legal stuff too. At least your H had the b*lls to get his own place. In my sitch, I feel like H is getting just about everything...family time, his things are safe, I'm his "friend"...I don't want to be punitive but this is getting too weird. I mean today, we were literally running around like teenagers and we had so much fun but we should have snuck behind a tree and scr*wed, the sexual tension was so palpable. And I'm thinking, when one of us gets a new OP, are we just going to be best friends and everyone will wonder why the heck we aren't together?
The work sitch is probably not going to pan out BUT, it was just so random and in sync with what I've been thinking about. I love when that stuff happens.
I eagerly await your "more comments." This site is a Godsend.
