Well, this has been long because it was the same issues in the M. It has just been building and building. The difference now is that I am a softer and gentler me and focusing on myself more...but, I think this crisis started a long time ago and he has been building up to this, thus my loneliness and withholding in the M. Remember, I was like many of the WAW on here. I was just too stubbornly committed to marriage to leave. So, imagine your wife as worn out and deserving of better treatment just being served more on top of it...do you get what I'm saying? I deserve so much more... cry