How long do you think the way he's living is gonna last? It can't last for very long. It's not sustainable. I know you're tired aliveandkicking! Living like this is HARD! This guy is 'lost' right now. He's in the fog, and he doesn't know what he wants. That's why DB'n talks so much about patience! You gotta decide if he's worth it to you, and then do whatever it takes to get the desired outcome that you want! First and foremost...take care of yourself! No martyrdom! Sleep on it aliveandkicking...your emotions are working on you right now.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
