[quote]My H has so many people convinced that he was miserable because of me...sad. Have you considered counseling? I think your H can't give you definitive answers. I don't think he knows. But, maybe counseling would help.
I think that most people have to know that this is still his fault and he is the lost soul. Whether they tell him so or not.
I was seeing a counselor in the beginning, the one H and I went to together and then I continued to go to alone. I need to call him because it has been a few weeks since I have gone. I got to the point where I just didn't think he was helping me...that he would be better off talking to H, who won't go. I will go back soon because I could update him on the latest and get his take. But as far as me...this board is more up my alley and theraputic!!!
