I get the concept but the implementation is tough.
I mean, how we handle money, boundaries, the kids...I have to have some sense of stability here.
Also, H just mentioned bringing the kids over to the gagillion dollar house he is staying at...I am troubled with my kids seeing their dad like this. A vagabond is a vagabond regardless of where he is laying his head...but this is like Mr. Toad's Wild Ride.
Antler's, I am enabling this. If I filed for legal sep or divorce, he'd have to get in reality and we would each get our own places and I'd handle my own money and have my privacy and boundaries and a schedule. I just don't know if this is healthy. He is constantly the center of attention and sort of going where the wind blows.
I love the idea of standing for my marriage but I don't love the idea of being used and legally attached to someone who has a completely separate life.
