I'm so relieved that you found my post and replied before I went to bed tonight. I just had a feeling that you may leave the board and I wanted a chance to speak to you again. So, I hope you will stay on longer, but if it seems to make you feel negative or whatever, then you don't want to stay if it hurts you. Just try not to take all those nasty things he said to you and believe them b/c we are not believe any of that junk they say. They are just lashing out and don't mean any of it. It is doing you harm to remember it so try to let that roll off and get rid of it for your sake. Have you ever thought of getting a punching bag and hanging up somewhere and when you get upset or stressed or depressed.....just going out there and punching that bag until you were exhausted? You might be surprised how much it would help.



I have been trying to post my first post here but for some reason it won't do it. I have done this many times so I'll keep trying.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...410#Post1116410

There we go...

Brace yourself. I am not proud of this. But this is where I was when I came on the board.

Sandi


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!