thanks Montana,

well, I really fell off track tonight in conversation with H. Really painful to think about.

I am so proud of you for putting a stop to your H. disrespectful tone in such a calm, matter a fact way. I need to get back to that place where I can do that. But your example has encouraged me.

will right more later...on emotional overload right now.


Me 30
H 33
together:10 years
married:5 years
Separated: 1/23/09
living apart 5 mos and counting
"when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on"-FDR