I will chime in to say that exposure is something you have to be very cautious with because there are certainly others who can hurt because of it. Causing damage to others, no matter your faith, is never good. I am not of the Christian faith, but I believe that the only one who can pass that judgment is???????
I think the point that needs to be brought back around is the original point of not acting out of anger and using shame as a weapon. It is not responsible. The shame things is theirs to own, not yours to give. No matter who you are I can almost guarantee that their is an extent of shame on the WAS part. That is why they can hardly look you in the face.
Being left behind NEVER is an excuse to be hurtful or go out of our way to "expose" and harm others. It is not OUR job, it is theirs. The problem as I see it is someone will hear it and get hurt, I have a child in my home right now who has not even spent more than 5 minutes with her mother for almost a year now because she "learned" of the affair. Hmmmmmm.....
