kevin, I am in your same sitch! Sucks! I know it's hard to listen to stuck and everyone else....
I know what your going through more then others maybe because of the similarities! I have been told as well do what you have to for you! If you try harder to fix this it might not turn out as you want....
Again I know I tried! Mulitple dating by my W not just one! Flight can help allot to understand. You have to decide... I know you want to work things out and may know the whys and hows... All you can do is show her and stay out of the way! As bad as it hurts! I know this personally! Back off of her for a while no calls unless absolutely necessary! If you live with her then don't be the same old guy is all I can say at this point.... No pressure....
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Me 40 waw 39 Never formally M Common law SD 16 SS 13 Together 9 yrs bomb 10/2/08 She started dating 11/08 Started P/A 01/09 Contiunes to call R over