I've read a number of posts or threads on this board. My situation is both similar and different than what I've read.
I recently (the last few months) got the I love you but not in love with you talk. Working long hours I took it as a warning not a bomb. I just found out it was the Enola Gay(sp?) and it was atomic. There is someone else involved.
We are all human and capable of straying from what is important, but betrayal is a bit tough.
My similarities to the threads I've read is that I'd like to save my marriage (I still love my wife) while my differences are that I'm not sure it's in our best interest.
If she's found somebody better maybe I should just let it go. Quite a bit to let go of though..... 19 years.
People will respond. You will need to give more info, than what you have. We all want our marriages saved here but techniques and strategies depend on the situations and kids etc.
So be more detailed in your story and start reading Divorce Busters and divorce Remedy. The more info we have the more we can relate to and share experiances.
Sorry you are on this site, but there'll be many people here to support you through your situation. You may want to give us some more info. and background. Are you living in the same house?
Unless you are an addict, adulterer, or abuser, the other guy is NOT better than you. Be kind to yourself!
Me 40 WAH 43 T 4 years M 10 months stepson 9 H left 1 month ago No D filed
