So far she told me about the EA..and that she was confused...and everything so far in our marriage has been honest accept her feelings I guess, but I am less trusting lately, checking on emails, phone calls etc. She is going to be quitting a job that gave her a cell phone, so if she is calling someone on either our vonage phone or our cell phone I have access to the call via online checking...

But I have to honest I hate the spying thing makes me tired and worrysome.

ME 43
Her 37
Married 6/98
2 sons 8 and 3
Love em tons
Seperated March 20th
Her- not sure
Me willing to make changes