I can't possibly help you if you keep going off and doing what you're determined to do. I'm not trying to be harsh or anything, but let's face something: your instincts haven't exactly worked, have they.
You come on here on Saturday, a wreck, asking for help, and we tell you NOT TO DO ANYTHING, and you go and pack up all her stuff, have a major confrontation with her. Then we tell you not to contact her, and NOT to have any R talks, and you're doing it the very same day.
