Nicole, your success is not in him coming around, he could do that until kingdom come and you could still not have a real marriage. Your success is in your awareness and mindset and ability to take responsibility for yourself.
Trust me, there is no "right way" with an immature and confused man like yours. You can lead though. If the ML makes you clingy and emotional than doesn't it make sense to stop? FYI- I told H no more and before long he was going for it again. It is something you will have to DO not necessarily talk about. Trust me, sticking to that will most likely be on you.
How do you get your focus back on you?
You are figuring this out...and doing really well.
