PDT and anyone else, where did i go wrong besides actually taking the time to answer? . . .
me = happy. me talking to her = "nervous". how do i remedy this?
You remedy it by limiting your talking with her.
Where you went wrong:
1. Answering the first time she called.
2. Being there when she called (shows that you were sitting around waiting for her to come by).
3. Waiting only 8 minutes to call her back (I'd suggest at least two hours).
4. Immediately saying OK to Tuesday. (indicates again that you're not busy, and are available to her anytime)
Now, what you did GOOD was being upbeat (not easy, I know!) and telling her you had what you needed, and telling her you were going out to dinner later. Very good.
To summarize: BE BUSY. BE UPBEAT. BY MYSTERIOUS. DON'T BE SO AVAILABLE.
Hope that helps,
Puppy
P.S. I suggest that, tomorrow, you text her and tell her "something's come up" and that "tomorrow isn't good for me anymore. How about Thursday, at about (fill in a time)?"
