You are welcome. My first time on this board, which was less than a year ago, although it feels like eons, was very much for my healing. Use this place to vent, ask questions, listen, and learn.
You are right. I too do not believe in coincidences. I had not intended to post here anymore even though I have not stopped lurking. I met the people I was supposed to. I developed those relationships and taught and learned and became friends with the people that I needed for my journey, as well as their own. Some I still talk to, some I don't. But I never stopped lurking, checking in on some, reading archives. Something about your thread struck me, and I felt that I had to post to you. I know there will be more for me to say you as this plays out and I probably didn't get what I really wanted to share with you until this morning because it was being held until a time when YOU needed to hear it. I will keep checking in. Have faith in yourself and know that you have the strength to come through this.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox