I've been following your sitch. You're a tough cookie and lots of times your insights have helped me, given me stuff to think about regarding my sitch.
I really resonated with your recent post where you talked about amount of time spent worrying/thinking about H. involvement with other women, be it emotional, sexual, or all the possibilities in between. I find myself there a lot too, and like you stated, the emotional stuff is worse, but also, what does it matter at this point. My H has admitted to EA but still maintains there is no PA...but I really feel like he is lying. We have to assume the worst, because, in the mindset these guys are in, why wouldn't they go there? I hate it so much that I spend time thinking about it, but it creeps in, despite my best efforts to not allow him and his BS to take over my morning, etc.
Anyway, I also have trouble with my GAL activities sometimes because I'm not someone who gets very excited about bar hopping with girlfriends. I will do it and enjoy to a point, but really, I prefer a nice glass of wine, reading, writing, and some good conversation (Normandy sounds great :-) So just wanted to say that I hear you on that.
Nice bottle cap quote...made me laugh, which is quite something these days. So thank you for that.
Me 30 H 33 together:10 years married:5 years Separated: 1/23/09 living apart 5 mos and counting "when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on"-FDR
