My thought is that you should follow what people have been writing to you on your own thread.

Kevin, everyone's told you time and time again what's going to happen and what you should do. Coming to a different thread isn't going to change the answer you're looking for.

Plus it's not an exact science. If your W wants to come back after 1, 5 or 25 years, that's up to her. What are you going to do in the meantime?


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER