Over the Shock and GALing 5

[Coach]

- She said "Well basically, there is my life before my fathers death (4 years ago), and my life after it"

I have known that our issues started right after the time of his death, and are in some way connected to it, but have never been able to get her to talk about it. She has also never acknowledged that they were related.

I followed up and questioned a bit on this topic - until she got annoyed and I stopped pursuing it, but she did say "You can't understand because your parents are still alive, and I don't think even then you could understand because you don't have the same type of R with your parents that I had with my father, but I just really still need him..."

Door to her heart.

Get her explain this and just listen. Tell her you want to understand because it is important to you. You are leading just keep aware of when these moments present themselves. I saw a great quote today in a unexpected place, "Awareness is the key to change."

What did Dr Suess say about getting out of the "waiting place" ?

Cheers