For any newbies to DB, I want to encourage you to press forward and keep on walking out of the pit....your spouses ARE worth it! Some who lose hope here will try to tell you that your chances are slim....I don't believe that for a second....if YOU keep walking it out. That is not to say that EVERY M will be restored...we may never know what God's bigger purpose is in those....but, I think far too many fail because the LBS gave up too early. I want to encourage you to keep moving forward even when it feels like you cannot. The blessings on the other side of the mountain of pain are worth every tear!
Thank you for saying this, and thanks for some encouraging words. Even if I am not a newbie.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.