18 to 24 months after the A ends is how long I can expect to wait to see any changes? Wow. But in my case, W is still pursuing addional OM after the first A. She told me she would be going out with other guys. I feel like I am really screwed in that sense because it isn't just one A, but looks like multiple ones coming. We are separated. She filed for D but then let it get dismissed but still has nothing to do with me unless she needs something or it relates to the kids.

What can I expect out of this? Like so many others, she used to be the loving caring faithful saving marriages type of W. And I blew it in so many ways.

Thoughts?

Kevin

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...