Ok, good and bad. Sounds about right. Congratulations on the grad!

Sounds like the wedding turned out to be another learning exp. The hiding the drinking thing was very hard for me when it was going on - he would claim he wasn't and I knew better. Since being sober, he had admitted what he did during our R that I didn't know about. He started to tell me everything, but I thought it was best to start being honest about us.

Sorry about the reminder of past days. I posted on my thread concerns I have about remembering the past during the grad. It happened at son's grad. I also get these "attacks" when around SIL and DIL who don't know the whole truth but know enough. I have spared SIL a lot of the truth so he could have whatever R he wants with his father.

How are you today - the day after? You did well. I think you are growing strong.


Me late 50's
M 9/06
D 4/11