Thanks for the response! H will be moving back in end of Sep if all goes well. We have been spending a lot of time together. It is going ok - like I said, there have been some old reactions coming up and we are recognizing it and put a stop to it.
Part of our problem was his behavior - the other part was the situation which is in the process of changing - another part was just my bad reactions to an abnormal situation.
In some ways it is like starting a new R where we are checking out what is ok with the other or not ok - getting to know each other again. Also seeing what we have in common and where we have differences. Managing differences was the problem in the past. So far, it gets tense sometimes, and easier at others.
