Whether she actually means what she is typing to OM or not, it still shows she is not a nice person and is very unhinged.
I hate to say this GH but perhaps it would be better if she terminated and you were able to move on and find someone else.
Have you actually seen the positive pregnancy test results and if you have were you there when she took them? I am afraid that I am suspicious of everything she does.
Do you want to lead the rest of your life like this? As a fish dangling on the end of her line? You are worth so much more....this woman plays you like a fiddle.
I am afraid if it was me I would have her things bagged up and waiting outside the door on her return. 12 wks pregnant is a stupid time to fly. It is a common time for a pregnancy to terminate as it's at that point the placenta starts to really take over and things can go wrong at that stage. Many women miscarry at 12 weeks. After that things become a bit more settled.
GH, what do you think is reasonable? Do you really still love someone that can do this to you or do you just not want to see yourself failing at something?
Think on this too....having a baby can make a woman behave very erratically after delivery. If she is like this now, what will she be like after the baby is born? Will she leave the baby with you and continue to fly around after OM or will she drag the poor child with her? Also, what a waste of money. Is she working and paying for this herself?
((((HUGS)))))) GH - you don't deserve this.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
