Sandi, I also wanted to add that I will do better about putting my foot down on my son more. He does help out around the house alot, it's just his attitude that is so much like his dad's that I have a problem with.
Also, I wanted to add that everyone here, as I said, seems to think I repeat myself. I got to thinking...my xh and son always told me the same thing. They would say I would ask the same questions over and over. I thought they were just picking at me and thought nothing of it. My xh said I would dwell on things too much. Maybe there is something wrong with me that makes me do this without even knowing it. Sandi, some people here have told me to try and figure out where I went wrong in the marriage. Maybe this was one of those things that help ruin it. I dont know, and I probably never will because xh was unwilling to go to c.
