I've read a number of posts or threads on this board. My situation is both similar and different than what I've read.
I recently (the last few months) got the I love you but not in love with you talk. Working long hours I took it as a warning not a bomb. I just found out it was the Enola Gay(sp?) and it was atomic. There is someone else involved.
We are all human and capable of straying from what is important, but betrayal is a bit tough.
My similarities to the threads I've read is that I'd like to save my marriage (I still love my wife) while my differences are that I'm not sure it's in our best interest.
If she's found somebody better maybe I should just let it go. Quite a bit to let go of though..... 19 years.
